Is the number of people trying to attack you without reason, the measure of your success???

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Is the number of people trying to attack you without reason, the measure of your success???

In these competitive times, everyone loves a hero. Not to be inspired, not for any learning, but to vent out their own frustration or jealousy at him/her. People do not like cricketers makin money walking the ramp, or working ads. They do not like their colleague getting a promotion or the beautiful wife of their boss or their neighbour's new car. Is feeling negativity towards success becoming the norm of society. A person who does not feel envious of someone else's success is considered a dead dog.

Jealousy is probably as old on earth as probably love in this world. From being jealous in love, it has spread to other realms, so much that if u r not attacked by someone without reason, or if someone is not jealous, u can assume u r going in nowhere in life. No one is jealous of a "nobody". So if you are successful, the first place to see it is in other people's eyes. They would stop wanting to mingle with u, they would bad mouth u, to sumhow try to reverse your success if they can help it. They will not think about themselves as much they would think about you & all the misfortune that can befall you.

We all know what happened to Pramod Mahajan. So instead of worrying about jealous people, try to use them as a measure of your success, walk like an elephant, between the barking dogs & stay focused on your goals without responding to these sensless attacks, this is the best way to rub the lesser humans face into the mud. These days in most cases they are not the ones who are unfortunate, you are.

11/12/2006 11:29:37 PM | Blog it | Journey Of Life

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	Vijaywrote: ? Jan. 28
	Aliciawrote: Hey, I haven't heard from you in a while. Hope everything is okay on your end.:) Jan. 21
	ferhat topalwrote: Merhaba from Turkey Jan. 19
	Ruben M Josephwrote: I have been busy completing my book on problems of children and did not visit many sites. Just dropped in to say hi and my sincere wishes for a blessed New Year. Though the year started with disturbing events and news in India and around the world, let us fervently hope that all this hatred, lust, brutality, terror and madness will soon fade away and peace prevails all over. We could pray and also act, one person at a time. Ruben Jan. 1
	sherifawrote: Hello there "So instead of worrying about jealous people, try to use them as a measure of your success" Ok first how can u be sure that they are jealous and not just hate you? Coz I can't believe that they r just doing this stuff because they r jealous Jealous of WHAT!! Coz I do something and they tell me it is not right to do so and some times I think maybe they want to do what I did but cant for some reason and that’s why they bug me Dec. 22
	Undisclosedwrote: My dear MBB, I miss your updates. I'm still a girl. Let me know if you still want my mysterious comments. Dec. 8
	Jitender wrote: Zwai! Zwai! No updates. Dec. 7
	Troublewrote: Dropped in to check for updates :) Everytime I drop in here, I see your tagline on jealousy and get motivated about not to feel jealous :) Cheers, Divoo Dec. 5
	Aliciawrote: Hey! Thanks for saying my space is lively! LOL. I try to keep it that way so that visitors will be happy.:) I was wondering what had happened to you since I hadn't heard from you in a while. Oh, I'm going on a "saree hunt." I found this lady who sells sarees and salwars. I think she's from North India. I'm going to try to talk to her and ask her to show me her sarees and make me a good price.:) Dec. 5
	Undisclosedwrote: talking about fortunate and unfortunate, we will wait to see. Dec. 4
	Vijaywrote: Nice that you have enjoyed such neighbours too. What you say about the present trend of keeping away is quite true and that takes half the fun out of apartment living. One expects to meet and get to know ppl and all they do is stay away and smile at u as they pass by in the hallways just for civility sake :) I guess it takes two to tango and we gotta do what we can to make the neighbours comfortable in approaching us. Then they can decide if they want to take it forward. Hope things are back to normal out there! Dec. 1
	Undisclosedwrote: hey MBB, back to your space. Great entry. But what if one's goal is to make these jealous people understand their disefficiency and wastage of energy in a negative direction? Should one be bringing an apocalypse one oneself? Vijay has the exact situation I'm trying to handle. Sometimes I feel Indians people born in the states are more of a Dhobi ka kutta and I really feel sorry for this state of theirs. Nov. 25
	Jitender Saanwrote: Heh heh! Nov. 22
	Aliciawrote: Hey, thanks for the advice. I took down the entry and replaced it with a more cheerful one (your post is still up but the second part isn't). I want to keep my blog cheerful and fluffy, lol. It's funny how you mentioned the word inferiority complex. I was thinking that might be the problem, too...actually I KNOW that's the problem for the first person. I know that for sure, lol. I just couldn't figure out why.:S Anyways, I shall return. I plan on shopping for some more bindis.:) Nov. 21
	vijay krishnanwrote: Plod on without fear...do your duty without seeking reward? In an ideal world, that works; would be great if it worked here as well. Maybe, that's what keeps those Nigerian scam artists busy :) Nov. 21
	Jitender Saanwrote: It is a matter of blind faith established through brainwashing. Those who believe without reason cannot be convinced with reason. Nov. 19
	Aliciawrote: This is a very inspiring post, and I just happened to read this at a very good time. I needed to hear this. I'm going to trackback your article on my space and post my thoughts on this...can you give me some input on the things that I say in it please. Nov. 19
	sweeti'swrote: well my bro in law is bit better.. we pray and hope thats all we can do and be there for each other thx for ur support..... abt my entry i like to remember things MUCH LOVE Nov. 19
	Troublewrote: Jealousy and love are like chicken and egg. Dunno who came first :) Jokes apart, IMO, jealousy in love is justified to an extent bcuz it's an accessory which kinda comes along. But then, there's a limit to being jealous or you end up harming yourself and the other person too. Coming to jealousy in other areas, it needs control, cuz it's mostly about harming yourself. People tend to mix the sense of competition with jealousy and this combination is dangerous. Like you have mentioned, it's you who's gonna be unfortunate if you're J of someone else's success. Thanks for dropping by. I wonder what praises you'd have heard about me from people :D Cheers, Divoo Nov. 15
	sweeti'swrote: Thx it feels so good to have so many caring friends much love we pray and wait and hope and having faith big hug Nov. 15

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